what is family ?

Families in Ramayana and Mahabharata , significently , are not defined by blood .Ram and Laxman are half-brother ,with a common father but different mothers . Of the five Pandava brothers,three have a common mother , and non have a common father .Krishna is raised by foster parents, and even his brother Balabhadra’s is actually his half brother .What defines a family then is not blood or low or custom ,but trust .In a family governed by trust ,there are no rules;only love defines all actions, as in the Bhagavata .In a family with no trust ,rule have no role;only power defines all actions,as in Mahabharata.In between ,stands and Ramayana ,where there is love but also rules.

Honesty vs Love

Being honest is not always the same as Truth………..
WE CAN PRACTICE RIGHT BEHAVIOR, AND BEHAVIOR ACCORDING TO DUTY, BUT THEN WE WILL BE WEARING FALSE FACES, AS WE ARE INWARDLY, A MADHOUSE. SO SHOULD WE ACT AS WE FEEL, OR ACT AS WE OUGHT.

I have seen persons who are cruel, violent, aggressive, sadistic — but sincere, very true, authentic. But they are using their authenticity just for their sadism. They want to make others suffer, and their trick is such that you cannot escape them. They are true, so you cannot say, “You are bad.” They are good people, they are never bad, so no one can say to them, “You are bad.” They are always good, and they do the bad through their good.

 

एक बहुत बड़ा सच

आप ने तो हद कर दी …पिछले कितनो दिनों से मैं इसे देख रहा हूँ .. आप इसकी प्राथना क्यों नहीं सुन लेते …और आप उस कि प्राथना सुन रहे है जो कि लोगो को लुट रहा है ,उन्हें मार रहा है .. आखिर ये माज़रा क्या है
आप मुझे ये बताने कि कृपा  करेगे ….
” मैं सिर्फ सच्चे दिल से मागने वालो का साथ देता हूँ .. वो गरीब सच्चे दिल से मेरी पूजा नहीं कर रहा है … इस लिए मैं उस के साथ न हो कर  दुसरे के साथ हूँ जिसको आप बुरा बोल रहे हो .. मगर वो बुरा अपने काम मैं सच्चा है और सच्चे दिल से मेरी पूजा कर रहा है ,,,, इस लिए मैं उस के साथ हूँ ……इस लिए कर्म प्रधान है .. कर्म करो सच्चे दिल से ….”